Opposites attract? Personality for couples

You fell in love.  But you are low-key and she’s the life of the party.  You like a quiet night at home with just the two of you, but he wants to get together with friends and family most all the time. Or, you are organized but she doesn’t mind leaving things cluttered.  When it comes to money, maybe you’re a saver and he’s a spender.  

These and many other differences can cause big challenges in relationships. Does falling in love blind us to differences?  Or do differences actively attract us because we need the balance that the other person brings?  A more quiet person can help ground you, while a sociable person can help you enjoy invitations you might decline completely if left on your own. 

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